Breaking Free: Unraveling the Chains of Approval
Aug 28, 2024
Navigating the Maze of Human Relationships and Self-Empowerment
In today's edition, let's delve into a topic that resonates deeply with many: human relationships. It's innate for us, as human beings, to seek approval - longing for acknowledgement, craving admiration, and yearning to be valued.
Yet, the stronger these desires become, the more we get restrained and consumed by thoughts of how others perceive us. Gradually, this confinement strips away the joy from our lives. For those with a strong need for approval, often tied to low self-esteem, validation from others becomes a crutch for emotional stability. However, relying on others for our sense of worth can often lead to disappointment, heartache, or resentment.
After experiencing letdowns and unmet expectations, there's a natural inclination to extend a helping hand to those who might be feeling lonely or in need. This leads to offering encouragement, praise, or simply being there for someone in their time of need.
However, as thoughts materialize into reality, your mind's eyes are conditioned to perceive and manifest more and more people in such situations. For example, a negligent spouse, demanding children or friends, and troublesome colleagues or students who require constant attention. When these become daily occurrences, it becomes incredibly challenging, time-consuming, and frustration only grows.
But here's the truth: you have the power to fulfill your own emotional needs. The more you rely on yourself, the freer you and your life become. Set your goals, starting from small ones, take action, and work diligently to achieve them.
When you succeed, acknowledge your efforts and celebrate your victories. When you can recognize your worth, you don't need validation from others. Also, as you become more and more proud of your accomplishments, you'll find yourself surrounded by individuals who are admirable to your eyes and inspire you.
This way of living liberates you from the whims of others, empowering you to pave your own path for growth and true freedom.
I'm on a journey to cultivate this authentic freedom of mind, and I invite you to join me. Thank you for reading.
Warm regards,
Saemi
“To cultivate a healthy level of self-esteem"
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